Utilizing the LAWS (Love/Assertion; Weakness/Strength) embedded in the Self Compass allows you to intuitively cooperate with Christ’s transforming power in your personality. Your Christian discipleship comes alive with depth and maturity.
Employing your entire Self Compass means that you express both tender care and diplomatic assertion. You are competent and strong, yet at the same time humbly aware of your weaknesses, maintaining free and equal access to all four compass points.
Love lets you care for yourself and others, drawing out your potential for nurturance, compassion, and forgiveness. Love provides the bridge of intimacy that connects you to people in caring ways. But no one remains loving all the time. There are times to stand up for your self and negotiate for what is fair and just. Assertion allows you to do just that: express your point of view with diplomacy.
Weakness helps you accept as normal the times when you feel uncertain or anxious. When you admit these vulnerable feelings into awareness, you can freely acknowledge your clay feet and ask for help when needed. On the other hand, Strength provides you with a sense of competence, confidence, and personal power. Healthy strength encourages you to achieve your best, while humbly acknowledging your weaknesses.
In Christian discipleship Jesus does not want you to become his clone. He wants you to become a full-fledged individual in him. With the compass points of Love and Assertion, Weakness and Strength up and running, the result is a dynamic, flexible personality. Jesus’ behavior in the Gospels, and modern research on personality, confirms that flexibility is crucial for personality health.
In using the Compass approach to Christian discipleship, the correlation of Jesus’ personality with the Self Compass provides people with a psychological as well as spiritual understanding of Christ, and enriches their perception of how the Holy Spirit works in their personalities and relationships.